I'm giving Adultfrindfinder 3 stars because of the concept of the site, and the fact they update the user interface from time to time. Also, I haven't had any problems with their billing, and when I've asked for a refund they gave it to me.

If the site didn't load so damn slow I would give them another star. As for the 5th star they'll never get that because of the lopsided user ratio; that's something they'll never change because I'm sure a lot of women wouldn't join AFF out of fear of feeling slutty.

As for me I'm in my late 20's, good looking, decently hung at almost 8", in good physical shape, and I'm white but my tan makes me look like a white/latino mix. The only drawback I have is that I'm 5'-8".

I've had a bit of luck on that site, but at first I took some hard knocks because I didn't know how to sell myself. My secret was to email either women with no pics and take a chance or to go after women who had vague profiles and a few pics. After a few emails I would convince them to send me a pic, and If they didn't I was sure that they were probably ugly.

I stayed away from the veteran women on that site; even though sometime they would contact me. I figured that when the veteran women on AFF contacted me they just wanted an ego boost, and I was right!

AFF has an allure that keeps me coming to them. I must admit it's fun because of the sexual theme, and the attention I get from women on AFF is fun as well. So, I've kinda become an attention whore in that way. After a few weeks I become bored with the site; by that time I have at least 2 phone numbers. The women I usually met on AFF were a 6-7 on a scale of 1 to 10, and all of these women have been in their early 20's. In the end, I usually dump these women because the "R" word always comes into the picture.

I know most guys come away from AFF empty handed, and they're frustrated as hell. AFF is a hard site to use if you're a guy, but if you're a woman who's at least a 5 you'll do well on AFF. That's the way internet dating is... a woman who can't get any while out in public all of a sudden becomes a goddess on any of these websites. Any time she has a whim for a guy, she's right in front of that computer logging into some site. All the cock coming her way, what's a girl to do????

Good luck to all of you and I hope all who reads this review has a happy sex life.