EHarmony is a joke and the joke's on us because they have only 7 or 8 men and women signed up and paid in your area, no matter where you live. Yes, I'm exaggerating, but whenever I'm matched, which isn't often, I get matched with a non-member. With very little in common, (or already IN a relationship) in spite of their much touted 4,006 points of light or spindles of joy, or whatever they are. Ugh. I asked for my money back and they offered me 2 months more. If I think they're useless, what will 2 more months of poor-nothing-in-common-but-the-movies-and-chocolate do for me down the line? A waste of space but their rhetoric seems to work. sg