I read with interest the previous postings. I also believe that eharmony matching is somewhat flawed. Many of the matches that were sent to me were so off the mark. For instance, I am a tall woman. Nearly 6 feet tall and stated in my profile that height was a major consideration. An what do I get? Matches from 5'6" to 5'10". There were a sprinkling on men over 6 foot but not many and most of those guys were looking for someone younger. I too listed my profile as someone with average looks. I am not looking to advertise my wares so to speak so I saw no need to send full body pictures in various arrays of poses. I also recently found out that they keep profiles from people who have cancelled their service. Why would you keep profiles from people who are no longer interested in being matched by eharmony? One gentleman was kind enough to tell me he had cancelled his account 6 months ago and was surprised when he received my match. He closed the match immediately and told me that if I wanted to respond I could do so to his personal email account. I did communicate with him several times and he also told me about the nightmare matches. I am locked in for 6 months then I am finished with this internet dating. This girl is going to get out and mingle more. Good luck to the rest of you.