I'll start out by saying e-harmony is not all good. My biggest complaint is that is takes a long time to receive any return in communication from your matches. But overall, it's not that bad. It's no better and no worse than any other dating site out there. I don't really know what a lot of you people on here writing your bitter diatribes were expecting from this. It's internet dating! It's a gamble, and you can't hold the site totally accountable for all the flaky people who join and screw you over on it. You have to go into this with realistic expectations. Good god, there sure are a lot of you with piss poor attitudes, no wonder your experience sucked.