I have only been on eHarmony for a short time so I'm unable to give a very detailed review. I was absolutely horrifed however by one of the matches they sent to me. A man who is HIV+ and listed "sex" as one of the things he can't live without. Please do us all a favor and sign up on a dating site for others like you. Not to mention that he couldn't spell words I could spell in 2nd grade. I hope it gets better because that's about as bad as it can get.