My first month on eharmony I was matched with over thirty women. I got to the open communication stage with seven and all but one never wrote me back or closed me out after the first email. The one that actually wrote back I am now in a great relationship. The two of us are very well matched and see the world the same way. She is also one of the better looking woman on the site; which isn't saying much.

If you are seriously looking for a match I suggest to keep at it and find a person who is also serious about it. I met with some woman that made it sound like they wer'e serious about finding someone but when it came down to it they just blew me off. Their loss because I met a great person.