I had great experiences on Jdate. I met my husband there, but I have to say, you must be patient and carefully screen the people you choose to actually decided to meet face to face. My method was contact, a couple of emails, a couple of phone conversations, and then, if we felt some chemistry, we'd meet for a drink. I met some wonderful men and had some great experiences on jdate. I had some jdates that were bad, creepy, or stalker types, but I chalked it up to 'live and learn' and moved on. There are lots of wonderful people on jdate, but I think I'm just one of the lucky ones. Come on...I have 4 teeneage daughters...if I can find a man there, just about anyone can!! Be open, be honest, and most of all, respect yourself and the people you meet.