So I've been on and off Jdate for about 4 years and I say with complete honesty that it's great. I've been reading through these reviews as well as reviews for other e-dating sites and all the reviews are more or less the same. Abyssmal.

My contention is that it is not the dating sites y'all have a problem with, it's the people. People are dishonest with their pictures, they only want sex, they're shallow... Well that's what many people are like. Most people are undatable.

From the reviews i read i've come to the conclusion that y'all have unrealistic expectations of online dating. Post a profile and 3 weeks later be madly in love with the woman/man of your dreams. Not likely.

I suggest that you see Jdate for what it is. An opportunity to meet jewish people that you might not have met otherwise. None of these sites has a magic algorithm that will connect you to your special person. Just be patient, be honest and use online dating for what it is: A tool to improve your chances of meeting someone special.