Eharmony is expensive. Much more so than other dating sites. But is it worth the higher price tag? ...Nope. It wouldn't be worth it at a fraction of the fee they presently charge.

Since joining eharmony I've also joined another pay site, which is ever so much cheaper... and a free site. In both instances I have been very active, getting a great deal of response from interested persons. But on the eharmony site? I have had very limited contact with two individuals, and neither of those contacts lead to open discussion. And I suspect that most of the "matches" eharmony found for me are not paid members at all, but persons who took the eharmony personality tests... and then decided not to join. Eharmony includes those people as matches, in spite of the fact that their profiles do not represent actual members.

Aside from the first week, I've not had a single new "match" in two months. I don't even check the site anymore. I've accepted that joining eharmony was a complete waste of money... and I've chalked it up to a rather expensive lesson.

If you live in an area with an extremely high population density, perhaps you would get enough matches to warrant joining... but if you're in a smaller market, eharmony is probably a very bad choice.