Bravo, Westchester! I totally agree with you regarding the "disappearing acts." I have gotten to open communication with several men, spending minutes every day writing emails and exchanging somewhat personal information, only to have them suddenly disappear. How about just closing out the match? My feelings won't be hurt, believe me. After learning my lesson the hard way, I now give my number in open communication and to hell with all the emailing. If they call, they call. If not, NEXT! I am also closing communication with men who do not quickly respond in order to get to open communication within a week. I only had to have one lesson to learn this. One match dragged out the whole process, so that it took one month to get to open communication, and then he disappeared for another week stating he got new phone number. I promptly hit the closed button. I don't have time for all this foot dragging and neither should anyone else. Come on people, if you want to meet the love of your life as soon as possible, why not act like you do? The book that has helped me with this new philosophy is "He's just not that into you." Should be required reading for all the ladies out there who do not deserve to have their precious time wasted. May we all find the love of our life!