It's not about finding a "perfect" woman, that is not possible, just like its not possible to find a perfect man. I just think it is important to have your life in order, have your priorities straight, actually try to take care of yourself by using make up, attending the gym regularly, and keeping a clean house. Beauty is only skin deep however, but a persons self worth is reflected on how they treat themselves. If you live in filth, you must feel like you are not worth living in a clean home. If you don't care about your physical appearance, maybe that means you have no care for your body because its unimportant to you. I hope to find someone that knows deep down inside that they are a person of worth, a person of respect, a person deserving honor and more! I am super attracted to those women that know themselves completely, and are confident and sharp, that show me that they only want the best that life has to offer! I hope that in return, she will be attracted to my strength and driven personality, and ability to not live like a homeless vagabond. Hopefully. Seriously, if you want to email me and discuss further, feel free to email me at redjar@yahoo.com