I have been reading some of these reviews, and to a certain extent, I agree. I had no problem finding people with whom I could communicate with, I had a few dates, some phone calls...sometimes I was the closer, sometimes I was the closee (that's life in the dating game) My biggest concern with this sight, is the fact that they turned me "off". Let me explain, I was getting between six and eight matches a day for about three and a half months, when suddenly the well went dry. No more compatable matches within 60 miles...so I expanded the search distance, now mind you, both parties need to be willing to do this farther search. Still nothing, I opened it up to "Anywhere in the World" still nothing. As an experiment, I changed my home city to my home town in California. They still had no matches for me!!! I am having a lot of trouble believing that in the entire tri-county area, that includes Santa Barbara, Ventura, Camrillo, Oxnard and several other towns in between (well over 400,000 people), THERE WAS NOT ONE COMPATABLE PERSON FOR ME. To my way of thinking, this means that they stop sending matches, possibly as a way to get you to resubscribe, even though you are a paying member. Any way, good luck to all!