I have tried lavalife off and on for 4-5 years. I find it entertaining and also a wonderful screening tool for finding men online. I now live with a wonderful man that I met my first night on lava. We didn't move in together right away, of course, but we took the time on lava to get to know each other, met one night, had a great time. We continued our relationship but still used lava for meeting other people and have had some interesting sexual adventures. I still use lava to this day and when I am in the mood for something new or want to go out on the town with an old friend, we rekindle on lava and off we go, like old times. I have really enjoyed lavalife. It think it depends on the person and what you are really looking for. I was not in the dating or relationship section of the site because that was not what I was looking for. I went online to find someone with the same needs as I had and that is exactly what the site is there for. Compatibility, whether it is social or sexual. Thank you lavalife for being there when I need you.