I think the website is a total waste of time. I joined foe one month and was only able to actually talk on the telephone with 1 person. When we met up he was painfully shy and confessed to me that he had never had a girlfriend. This was alarming to me (he was 35 years old) and although he seemed very nice, the whole process of connecting to someone this way is very unnatural and I would not recommnd this site to anyone.