When are we all going to stop blaming the member of the opposite sex (to some degree) and see that there may be antisocials, the highly confused, players, mentally ill individuals (without judgment on the latter) on the side of each fence, who find the online scene (whether conscious or unconscious) to be the playing ground for their dysfunction. Let's all wake up together and realize that what we end up being attracted to (or even what we are seeking) is not what is necessarily best for us. (That's another psych forum, for another day). Regardless, this forum should not be designed for gender bashing. It should be against the dubious practices of online dating services, which prey upon our legitimate desire to find someone with whom we can connect and find an intellectal/psychological/emotional/physical connection. Everyone, let's come together and get it together, and focus on what's really at hand, if there's really anything at hand at all except the fact that since we're here, we might try to avoid online dating or entertain the scene with great caution. Cheers and best wishes to all. : )