I like the site but in general it suffers from the same problem as other sites. Which is, its hard to find a "soulmate" in a meat market.

Ive gone through almost 1000 matches in the year I have been on the service. Got some sort of communication with about 400 of them, made it to open with about 200 of them. Ive gone out on maybe 50 first dates, had 3 relationships that ended up sexual.

In general the least attractive or most overweight ones are the most aggressive, initiating contact with me as soon as the match is made. I consider myself a good looking guy, and Im in great shape. So I would close matches who were so unattractive to me that I doubt I could achieve an erection if I was with them.

Seems like a lot of ladies there are using the site to find a guy who would not date them in the real world. Get real ladies. If you weigh 250lbs, well dont try and pick up guys who weigh 175. Go find yourself some 300lb hairy nerd who is so happy to get with you that he will worship you.

Also, the most attractive ones are the most likely to let the conversation end for no reason, even if it was them who initiated contact. Clearly they get a lot of attention and have a hard time deciding on who to date.

One thing guys - if you are decent looking and have a good job, you should score no problem. Some decent girls are very desperate when they join the site, will give it up very easily. Just be sure to let them know that being physical does not mean being in a relationship and being in love. I tell them that up front, and if they want to wait, fine - but they never want to wait so no worries.