Despite the hype, I'd gone through over 200 "matches" at eHarmony before cancelling and swearing it off. Many of the women didn't so much as bother filling out the basic questions, many had no photos posted, and a few never even paid to join the site. Out of the 236 "matches" I only got through the email, phone, and date process with three: One put up photos that were easily 15 years and 100 lbs. older than she was; one was a psycho who went into my wallet on our ONE date to get my social security number and run a credit check on me; and the third turned out to be married and looking for a man to bring into her marital bed with her husband--in other words, the same lunatics that I could have found anywhere else for less money and investment of time.

Furthermore, they engaged in the fraudulent practice ot trying to lure me back months later with phony "let's give it another try" messages from women that I had closed out on up to a year earlier! No sane woman is going to send that type of note to a man she never even so much as talked to after THAT length of time. Shame on eHarmony and their line of bullshit!