Although they try to set themselves apart, eHarmony is just another dating site with a gimmick. Although I specified I only wanted someone in my country (Canada) I kept getting matches from the States. The process is cumbersome and frankly, quite silly. I have had very few matches but got suckered into taking another 3 month subscription. After 2 months they have only sent me 1 match. I am not terribly fussy so this is quite silly. Save your money and avoid this dating service.