I give eharmony a very big two thumbs up rating. the site introduced me to quite a few very intelligent and attractive women 28-35 in a very short time. I met about twelve on an intro date and dated about four of them before I met one in particular that I have been dating now for 8 months.

I found the personality matching to very helpful in screening out some of the women i would not have been interested in and in finding people that did have some genuine common ground.

if you are expecting any of these services to magicly produce a mate for you, then you are a kook. the service just expedites the introduciton process and put you in contact with a refined pool of people. Providing the indtroduction is the biggest benefit, you have to take it from there.

I like that eharmony slows things down and makes you get to know each other before you meet. with the first girl I met, we corresponded for several weeks and then talked on the phone three or four times before we met. I really liked that. we had a good start, before we ever met.

I can give you one strategy with eharmony that will save you some frustration. I found taht if a girl didnt want to reveal her photo or did not post her photo, that 9 times out of ten, I didnt want to meet her. she eitehr was not attractive to me, or she had a bagful of issues and attitude. I learned fast - no photo, you go on HOLD.

best of luck to you!