I think that I was a bit of a challenge for eHarmony. I live out in the middle of nowhere. I don’t think there are 1000 people within 10 miles of me. The nearest significant town (population 1850) is 20 miles away, the nearest major city is 65 miles away (a 90 minute drive). Still, I found a wonderful woman that loves me for who I am. What more can a guy ask for?

I know when I first started my eHarmony experience, I wish I had some the benefit of some thoughtful advice. Since then, I have spent a lot of time considering my eHarmony experience, what I did right and what I could have done better. The result is an eBook , A Nice Guy’s Guide To eHarmony. If you are curious, you can see it at: http://www.Romantic-Advice.Net/tm003.html

I think the bottom line question is: Do I recommend eHarmony to others? Yes, I do. I have a friend that is a really nice guy, but has had the absolute worst luck with women. I have literally begged him to join eHarmony. I have even offered to pay for the first month, but for his own reasons, he isn’t quite ready yet.

eHarmony certainly isn’t for everyone. If you are serious about finding someone to share your life with and you are willing to invest the time, I think eHarmony is a good option to consider.