I joined in the hopes of finding a true life partner and what I started to realize is that eharmony is just a scam.they dont link you up with any "scientifically matched..." they do though take your money easily! Also when I did have an argument with aservice rep. within that day I was cancelled from the site and was told that I would get an answer as to why if I contacted their help line,well what do you know I was e-mailed that they dont have to tell me why I was cancelled.Is there any way that this can be an invasion of privacy? To top that off my "matches" were e-mailed and told that if they kept communication with me outside of eh that eh wouldnt be responsible.......(for what?!) its nearly libelous.My matches were afraid of the mesg. here and I havent done a thing!Is there any one who has had a similar situation and to put it another way,DO NOT JOIN ESCAMHARMONY !!! THEY TAKE CREDIT CARDS AND DO NOT HAVE TO ANSWER QUESTIONS.THE RATING IS NEGATIVE STAR