eHarmony tries to overwhelm you with pictures of smiling, happy couples and they try to make you believe that all you have to do is sign up and your soulmate will just magically appear.

That isn't what happens. A lot of people who get sent to you are not members and can't even reply. The matches don't seem like they went through any sort of selection process and just appear out of nowhere.

They use smiles and hugs couples to distract you. They are doing the same thing as everyone else. Happy soulmates draw you into fantasy land and out of reality land where you might question how they match people or realize that the 29 dimensions that the commercials babble about don't exist. You're too distracted with finding your soulmate to think about the actual logic behind it all.