My experience with Yahoo! is probably more anecdotal. That's because I think the reason my profile is now in the rejected state ( not appearing ), is that the powers that be can't believe I'm in my fiftieth year of life and have to be lying about my glancing, and peripherally artistic description of why I've never consummated any intimate relationship. The good thing is that though I'm not spiteful, I see it as an opportunity to litigate. Even if it got to small claims court, I would write the local or regional newspapers to try to get someone to make Yahoo! customer service actually take what they do seriously. And I just know anyone who has clicked on this site has probably had problems with the non-existent people there, too. Let's face it, if these people were experts at promulgating romance, they would leave so much more of the creation of peoples' profiles more up to the users; and maybe offer more relevant ways to authenticate the veracity of dater's identities and bona fides.