I did not really try Lava Life because I don't want to waste any money. I have tried Match.com during free trials and Eharmony for 3 months paid. Basically, I had zero luck with all of these sites. I know I'm not bad looking. Also, I own my own home and make enough money to hold my own. Other than that, It's "Don't ask and don't tell" as far as incomes goes. Basically, for a man to succeed on these sites, he has to either lie or make very good income in addition to having alot of time on his hands. Most working men never will meet someone via these sites.