Hey people, I put a profile on Intimate Encounters and I found a lover within 1 week. She sent a smile to me. Then I had to purchase 50 points for $15 from Lavalife. I sent her an email, we talked on the phone a couple of times, last night we hooked up with eachother. She's a very considerate lady and we shared a very special night of romance.

For the spin, I've always had good luck on Sexual personals sites. I know how to attract the attention of women, who want just good sex or to make love with a fun guy. Being a good-looking guy helps attract the attention of women but good looks don't please women.

I've never had a lot of luck on relationship based websites. This is because the (most of these) women who use these websites are more obsessed with material possessions and the guy's job. I'm employed as a craftsman and I make 50k a year, which is more than the national average. Still, this is not someones soulmate's line of work. Another fact is most of these women have never been loved the way they would like to be loved. So they don't really understand their romantic needs. The must gut-wretching fact is women don't come to fully understand their romantic need untill they're married but I'll save this factoid for another time.

I think the reason they don't like me on relationship sites is because I remind these women of a player. The fact is, I'll stick it out with whatever woman I meet untill I or She knows it won't work out between us.

Has anyone read Major Tom's articles about Tammy. Well, I was curious about Tammy so I did a search on Kelowna. (People, keep in mind that Kelowna is pretty small, roughly the same size as Yakima, Wa, Allentown, Pa, or Redding, Ca.) Tammy screen-name is TAMMY341 and she's about 36yo. Tammy is pretty but she's no supermodel and you can tell she is in her 30's. In my opinion, I think Tom is obsessed with Tammy. Romantic obsessions is unhealthy because the obsessionist ignores his/hers own needs. Hopefully Tom doesn't start stalking Tammy.

Tom my message to you is: leave Tammy alone. She's a burnt out Spinster and she wouldn't ever make a good lover for any self-respecting guy. She could be into Strap-ons and that's why she's single. Basically, there is a reason someone is 36yo and still single.