WOMEN BEWARE....eHarmony is for men only. My last match, an 8 month liear, stayed on eHarmony for 6 months and received close to 800 matches to my 74 over the same period of time. Don't be fooled by the look of "the nerdie nice guy" marketing his product to the desperate women of the world. I have experimented with different stage names and zip codes and talked to men on the same website and the results are the same. It's a shopping spree for men and a dead end for women who are exposing their most intimate thoughts and photos to a bunch of liars. Most of them will tell you anything you want to hear. Be careful.