Wow, just reading all these horrible reviews makes me want to take my profile down from the site! I'm currently on it right now as a standard member, have not paid. I just wanted to see if I was lucky enough to get some "bites" before I actually became a paying member, if it was worth it. Well, I've been on for about 2 weeks and I only got 4 winks, in which 3 of them are from men out of state (too far for me). I get a lot of "views" but it doesn't go any further than that, and most of the men from my state don't bother to post a photo, so I don't respond to those. Fair is fair-if your going to wink at someone and view their profile, you should put a photo up. Why? Because you can see mine, yet I can't see you? What's there to hide? Geesh... Most of the men on these Christian dating sites seem to think it a "sin" to place their photos, either that or they lack confidence. Then, a word of advice, if your that scared, then why have a profile on an online dating service? Hello!