I have been registered on this site for about 4 months, I paid for silver membership- You can do nothing really without paying- previous comments are accurate in the sense that women just need put up a profile and sit back and wait for the inevitable flood of responses from male members. The servers are a bit slow at times, and there are a large number of fakes, as i suppose with any dating site. That said I have met a couple of really nice women, and had nice dates that resulted in no strings fun- which is what we both wanted. There are "Queen Bees" women who are very active in chat etc and they know how to work the men very well. I avoid them as they are generally insincere. I have been solicited by two prostitutes who i reported to the site and their profiles were removed within 24 hrs- this was re-assuring. Overall i would say it works well to a point. I find honesty works well and seems to stand out from the crowd, I am bewildered by the amount of guys who put pictures of their manhood up, but whatever. One big frustration is the amount of bisexual and lesbian women who return in searches and "cupid matches" but this is Ireland in the 21st century. You have to realise that Ireland was a very sexually supressed society until recent years and Adult Friend Finder works well as a way to express your sexual desires and hook up with like minded people- its better than the Pub.