Terrible site. $30 bucks a month - and no idea who has an acive account and who doesn't. Most profiles are non-active, and very few are paying members - so trying to meet a paying member of this community is like playing Russian Roulette.

The worst thing I found was in chat. They claim they have hundreds of thousands of members online at once - however, if you log into their stone age java chat system - at best you'll find 5 rooms with a combined total of maybe 10 people. There is tons of abuse - one of the mods or users decided he had it in for me and made it his mission to kick me out of the room, without provocation everytime I'd log in. This user/moderator even went as far as to interupt discussions I was having with other users to verbally absuive me and boot me. I threatened to file an official complain report to American Singles and he basicly laughed because, despite the fact you pay $30 dollars to access the chat rooms, and they allow absusive moderators run the rooms - they have no complaint form and emailed complaints will generate a generic "you'll have to call in person" email. If/when you call in person, demand a refund or for something to be done about the harassement - they freed you the same :we are not liable for what happends in the chat - and obviously, you only have access to the spefied rooms accessed on heir servers - so for $30 dollars a month I cant use live chat, and 98 of the users online are not members who can check emails or reply.

I'd have to say that I feel ripped off, above and beyond the fact no one could help me with my abuse/haraasement complaint.