udate has to be the worst dating site i have ever used. its full of weird men who have major issues. most of them approach you with a "hello sexy" and then continue to pester you about sex until you tell them straight to get lost. they then block you! udate itself still send you a warning about being offensive to other members. when i did complain udate sent me a computer generated message telling me people had the right to block. a lot of the men on there post old pictures, ive turned up for dates only to find some who looked more 56 instead of 36!! dont waste your money. spend it in the real world