I have been with eHarmony now for 1 month, I only did it for 1 month and that is all I am going to do. I have been getting a lot of matches but Most of them are On the West coast I live on the East Coast.or the matches are just to uncompatible. Also when you do get matches you have to go back and forth with these stupid questions. Most people don't have pictures and there are many steps to go through before you can start talking with that person. I fell that the price is way to high for what you get yes the personality profile is free but you can't start getting matches until you subscribe. Don't waste your money. There are many services that are free and if you want to pay the price to upgrade on these other sites the price is much lower then eharmony.