I have just canceled my membership, of a year and half, on e-harmony because the process was a disappointment. At first, there were few matches. As soon as I was successful at posting my picture a flood of matches magically appeared. Of those, only a few responded. My final frustration came when one of the few reponses told me that he had over 300 matches. 300! I had so much less. I think that eharmony should be more honest about the disproportionate ratios, women to men. Given the nature of women and men it makes sense, women feel safer meeting people online, men are in the clubs, bars, and other meeting places where they can see what they are getting. We all know, men like to look and women want to communicate. I think the profile is a scam. Not one of the matches was based on any profile I gave them. The last match told me honestly that he was charged and plead guilty to assault and battery of his last wife. That did it, I quit. Of course, he claimed that he was not guilty but plead guilty to avoid jail time. There are always two sides to a story, however, I'm still wrestling with whether to contact e-harmony and report this match. I think as a women concerned for women everywhere, I should.