I must be incredibly lucky. I used Lavalife for about 3 years. Actully met some really great women during that time. Well, last year I met my true love. We met in June '04, got married in May 05 and are expecting our first child this October, a boy! Hey, I don't believe in wasting any time. Again, I do realize that I was very lucky but my point is that sometimes e dating does work and I found LL the best of the bunch.