I completed the tedious profile questions and was considering signing up for eHarmony but wanted to get more information and read some reviews. After reading the reviews (most of which are very unfavorable) I have decided to take the advice and keep my money. Suprisingly I received 5 matches!!! 5 matches??? How can this be?? I am not a member. I didn't realize that before you actually become a member your profile or shall I say information is available to actual members. Okay, so I'm trying to decide if I am going to pay the fee and before I can make up my mind, I receive an email saying 'Joe' had answered my questions. I hadn't asked any questions. I go to the site to follow up and 2 of my matches had been closed saying 'This match never responded to my request'. It really made me wonder. If these were really matches or just bait to get me to sign up and sign up quickly. Well I guess I'll never know because I am going to bypass eHarmony. Thanks