American Singles is a total scam site. I'd give it zero stars if I could. Sure, you can join for free and even sent flirts for free. But if you do, I guarantee that you'll have a message in your mail box the very next day. Unfortunately, it will cost you at least $29.95 to read it, or even see who it's from. And guess what? It won't be from the person you contaced. You're only made to think that it is. It will be from someone in Russia, Romania, or some other eastern block sespool. Save your money. They're scumbags preying on the lonely and desperate.