Hi Everybody:

i've paid for credits on Lavalife twice, and i think the site is ok overall. i don't know if they have "Fake Profiles," they may indeed exist, but i've had several genuine responses.

now, regarding CONNECTING with those women who've responded to my contacts, that's a different subject, and that's just fate: you either discover there's chemistry, or you don't.

those here who mention having a decent profile are correct, and let me say it loud and clear to you GUYS WHO NEVER LEARNED HOW TO APPROACH WOMEN:

"HEY, THEY DON'T WANT TO SEE A PICTURE OF YOUR D*** THEY WANT YOU TO BE SINCERE, GENUINE, FRIENDLY and a sense of humor really helps too."

i'm nothing to look at, but i've had beautiful girlfriends, including professional models. were they just "slumming?" well... maybe =8^) but they said they were attracted to a guy who was kind, polite, genuine and treated them with respect.

ALERT ALERT ALERT

these three sites are TOTAL SCAMS.

> MARRIED CAFE > INTERNATIONAL HOUSE OF WIVES > ADULT DISCREET

these sites appear to have different owners, but they are actually owned by the same person. they all have the same spelling errors in the Home Pages, they have the same photos with different profiles, etc.

I EVEN GOT THE SAME CONTACT MESSAGE FROM TWO DIFFERENT PHOTOS, FROM TWO OF THESE SITES

Again, “Hey guys, and a few of you girls too, regarding hooking up, remember the golden rule, be genuine, adjust your attitude and make your expectations reasonable, and things will work out!”