I decided to try Lavalife Intimate Encounters a few weeks back. Oh my, what pain in the butt the CSR staff are. I was censored to death with content and pictures. I finally gave up after many rounds of editing and submitting. To make matters worse the CSR staff is so slow at reviewing and their error system for bad content is near null. If you want quickie type of meetings then Lavalife is not the place to go. They are all about the money with their pay per use messaging credit system. Keep looking on the web swinging friends as there is good sites out there that are pay per month with unlimited messaging and no censorship nazis.