I paid for two full years on eHarmony, with a full year break between the two. It's a gigantic rip off. I recommend Match.com, although that's starting to get greedily expensive as well. At least they don't pretend to be God though. I would've been fine with eHarmony claiming to be all-knowing if they actually were, but they chose awful matches for me, and I met several, and they were friendly enough, but when they're charging such massive fees for such abysmal service it really seems unethical. Go with match.com, or if you're less serious HotorNot.com is actually the best value on the web.