I went to eharmony because of the advertisements, that eharmony matches people with like inner qualities and interests. However I find that the female participant's are unresponsive to just start a communication. However could someone get to know each other if they do not even show interest in communicating. All so often do I hear women say that they would like someone to accept themselves for being themselves, however seemingly this is a oneway street, women at Eharmony wish to find their mate by physical attributes. I made requests to Eharmony for refund requests, because I was disturbed by the negative qualities of the female eharmony members, and everyone of my requests were meet with eharmony operators telling me I need to post a picture- although the entire selling point of this site is to match people deeper than physical interest? Oddly I am an Intelligent and accomplished individual, who is in excellent physical condition and i don't have reservations about posting a picture because i was hiding something, I was in fact looking for someone genuine without basing my opinion on physical appearances but the inner person and was hoping to find the same respect- So if you are male and seeking the same- EHARMONY is not the place.