I have been with e-harmony for quite some time and have to say that as far as matches go, I've been quite happy with the people they sent me.

I don't get a lot of matches, but am not offended as the ones they have sent me seem to be good for me, and I'm into quality, not quantity. If I wanted quantity, I would go to match.com.

As for the complaints here, I have a few things to say:

1. If the people they send you are not your type, then just close the communication. In real life, you would do the same thing. The people who receive matches who aren't their physical type just have to let it go, and the people who get told they are not physically attracted to that person can't take it personally either.

2. Not everyone wants their picture posted. I am an ex-model, and needless to say, that if I post a picture, I will bet bombarded with e-mails, especially on other sites, but e-harmony lets me communicate with people who don't seem to mind I don't have a picture up, and if they do, then so be it.

3. All in all, I think that matching on other criteria besides interests and professions is a good thing. Because if someone is a "techie" and someone else is out there to save the world, it doesn't mean that they will not be compatible in other ways.

All in all, take e-Harmony for what it is, a chance to meet people, and stop thinking about it as the answer to your unhappy singledom.