This is about as run of the mill a dating site as you can get.... Unfortunatly i agree with a lot of the other people who have posted on here....

If your looking for an over night fling.. DONT put your profile in relationship!! Is that such a hard concept? Mr "young, professional, looking to settle with a nice homey girl" is also in the orange section looking for "swaping, fetishes, a no strings quickie and some hardcore Be*ver licks" Like.. does anyone else see anything wrong with this?

I have paid my big 19bucks to have credits... but dont find that it helps much... i guess few girls in ottawa have creidts as most guys dont really seem to know what to do when they get messages, or send backstages...

I think lava's web design is horrible.. i could redesign a more easy to navigate site in my sleep...

But then again.. i've been on lava life a very long time.. .back when it was webpersonals before it got bought by lava.... and i have met some VERY great people this way.... Unfortunatly i think like most have said here... in the last few years.. the word is out...

Low self esteem guys... not so great guys... liars.. cheats.. married men/women... etc... can now post a profile.. and have most girls/guy at their place doing the nasty in under 24 hours....

Lavalife has made the whole dating ritual to easy and expendable... why stick something out and work on it.. when you can repost and meet 20 available peoples in 15 mins?

so what the hell is a young professional like myself still doing there??

To be honest folks.. I really couldnt tell you.....

Hope....