Had been on lavalife for about 3 months, had chatted with a few men - dated intermittently. This review is in response to the (obviously unattractive) male who denigraded women in his own review, with emphasis on the stupidity of the women he had the displeasure of interacting with. First of all, I am a highly intelligent, independent, funny woman (note the emphasis on this word instead of "chick" and "girl"), who also happens to be 5'3, 115 lbs, blonde hair, blue eyes, and voluptuous (real, by the way). I joined lava with the expectation of getting to meet men in a relatively innocuous medium, where I can chat with them, get to have a sense of their sense of humor (or lack thereof), and see if their intelligence and attractiveness exhibited are enough to warrant agreeing to meet for coffee. Well - there were a half-dozen males whose profiles gave even a hint of wit, attractiveness, or smarts. Just so you know, Mr Jerk, men can be just as idiotic as you describe women to be, if not worse - because they somehow believe that, in addition to being a moron, they can remain content with being paunchy, balding, sloppy weenies (and they don't MIND posting photos showing themselves this way!) who ask to meet attractive women, then have the laughable gall to say they only want "fun, not anything heavy". At least most women have a sense of physical appearance. It makes me laugh that a clearly-unattractive guy has the cajones to REQUIRE a woman to be cute, smart, etc, when they definitely can't even measure up themselves to their own expectations. Mr Wonderful, here's a newsflash: the great gals you have had drawn to you are NOT waiting for your approval. Sure, maybe they have been naive enough to let their hair down and be spontaneous, not knowing that your obviously low self-esteem (could it be that maybe you are a bit small...minded?!) is the real reason you have problems meeting women to connect with, so you judge them immediately and then discard them. Of course, not before fucking them, right? Or are you too discerning of a high-quality guy to do that? Yeah, right. By the way, the rating of 2 has nothing to do with the quality of the service, but the quality of the losers who spend too much time cruising for an easy lay. I quit lava because I'd rather meet real guys and get to know them the old-fashioned way, by meeting them surreptitiously. Mr Wonderful, do YOU know what that word means? One last sentiment for the road: go fuck yourself.