ATTENTION ALL LADIES! LAVALIFE IS FULL OF CREEPY GUYS. NO ONE READS THE BIOS OR HAS ANY INTEREST IN WHAT YOU'RE LOOKING FOR - MET THREE OF THE MOST RELATIONSHIP-PHOBIC, PATHOLOGICAL LIARS THROUGH THIS SITE. BE VERY CAREFUL WHO YOU END UP ACTUALLY MEETING OR GIVING YOUR NUMBER TO! I'm sure the site is full of decent human beings, but 3 for 3 is a total scam. And it's not just me - I've talked to MANY other people who've had problems with meeting people for serious relationships on this site. My advice? Don't post a picture - seriously! The people you want to stay away from are the ones who look just scroll through the site "meat-market" style and don't pay any attention to what you've taken the time to write in your bio about what you're looking for in a relationship. And the credits thing is ridiculous - there's no way to get your money back if you decide not to use the site anymore, even if you still have credits left! My advice, go to eHarmony - if you're honest on the personality profile (and I really mean it, be honest, even if you think it might paint you as an undesireable person) you'll find someone. I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and we met through eHarmony after I was signed up for ONE WEEK - getting married next year. It was the best thing that's ever happened to me.