lavalife is a complete scam. their system is filled with fake profiles. i can't count the number of times i get smiles from attractive women on the site, and then when i respond with an email or a message (read: spend credits), suddenly there is no response on from these supposedly interested women.

look, dating is tough enough. but to have to put up with the constant trickery of this site is totally discouraging. every time that i respond to a smile, i now feel like charlie brown with lucy and the football. you want to believe, but it gets swiped every time.

and, of course, when the profile is real, it's is usually a bbw. which, is not really what i'm looking for. i'd quit, but at this point i still have credits, that i just can't stand to leave behind. so, instead, i'll let the swindlers get their due, and then, i'm done.