My friend (female) and I have used U-Date and before that Kiss.com off and on for a few years now. Both of us thinking we may just meet Mr Right - not so. Most of the men are like children in a candy shop - the selection is too great and it all becomes a game to the men. Married men, stating they're married or not but their wife doesn't understand them - they are looking for a casual sexual encounter for themselves or with their wife. Old pictures, he says 52 - more like 62. Then there are many that get a thrill out of sending a sexual whisper - block to many and U-date makes sure your block button no longer works and you are stuck with these nasty mails. Complain to U-Date - you will get a reply but a computer generated generic reply. When you pay you agree to allow them to continue charging to your credit card - oh yes you do - most don't read the fine print at all. You must immediately remove all credit card info in order for this to not happen - look in the help section. Pictures - men near naked in showers, on the beach, lying on a bed that's ok but if a womans pic is even a little saucy they delete it or even delete her profile. I don't know if Internet dating really works, but my experiences on U-date coupled with their horrible new format has put allot of us right off Internet Dating. U-Date has become a place where lonely people go to fill in the hours.