All I can say is eharmony is a total waste of time and money. I give them zero stars.

How scientific and rigorous can the process be when it matches you with people who are diametrically opposed or almost total opposites?

Why did it match me up with these people?

1. A match with someone who finds religion extremely important to the point of being a fanatic when I just listed myself as spiritual only. This person asked me if I was able to remarry (I am divorced) according to the bible's tenants. What? I am legally divorced in the state of Oklahoma. But when I asked where in the bible it mentioned that they couldn't tell me.

2. Numerous people who put that looks are extremely important to them despite the fact that they are old, wrinkled, and pushing 50. I am youthful and in my mid 30's. I also put on my profile that I am of average looks. So how did I match with these people?

3. I also matched with a symphony conductor. I have no musical interests besides rap and hip hop, and I am tone deaf. (Couldn't carry a tune in a bucket, I've been told.)

4. Matches with people in the psychology/medical fields. A couple of these people seemed very peculiar to me bordering on scary.

5. Numerous men pushing 50 or older who seem obsessed with sex and want to talk about it in emails before I even really have gotten the briefest chance to know them. Give me a break, I am no prude but please be realistic here.

6. Players who want to date numerous women at the same time and who have trouble keeping track of the ones they are communicating with. That is they refer to things that don't make sense, like they think they are communicating with another person.

Eharmony is a total waste of time. Aren't there any decent, normal, honest, faithful men left out there? Are all the good guys taken?

I am 35 dwf living in Ardmore, OK. And I am a ehamony reject. If you have more to say about eharmony or want to say something to me drop by.

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/without_eharmony/