I went to lavalife last Nov and I deleted my profile a couple of weeks ago. During last three months this had been a nightmare to me because I got hurt. Everything seems so fake. I did get a lot of attention on lavalife although I am not super pretty. I only replied to 5 guys that I thought are decent and serious. Some of them, to me, are so weird. I started a relationship with one of them and we broke up last week. And finally I understand what they want is to have fun or keep on having new sex partners when they have nothing to do, when they feel lonely or when they are bored with someone although they try to hide this point. It's like that he is still looking for other donkeys when he is on this horse.

I don't think people on lavalife are all losers but I do believe there are a lot of different types of people there. Some guys may complain that girls on lavalife are weird too. I believe it. It's all about what your expectation is from lavalife. To me, I am tired of digging out the real person behind each mask.