Lavalife seems to have a lot of control over individuals and they interpret it differently depending on who you are I guess. They allow people to submit "backstage" photos that may be more risque that those normally shown on the profiles. However I have been restricted in publishing some because they indicate it is too "sexually explicit" (this is in their Manline section), however they advertise for their new video service he's hot, he's HARD, he's waiting which to me would seem to indicate they are advocating sexually explicit material. As well, they seem to make unilateral decisions on blocking individuals and if you have purchased credits, any credits remaining are lost and non-refundable. Granted this is in their agreement but again they seem to interpret the agreement as they see fit.