Matchmaker is the only site I know that allows you to answer email from a member on a free membership, but it is basically the guys that pay and women who mostly ignore them. There are at least twice as many men as women. Worse than that if you count active members. They way to check out a website is to check out the women wanting to meet women. If they have been online a lot, then women are buying profiles and writing to each other. If the bi and lez women have mostly not been online in over a month, it means they do not buy memberships and do not contact each other. I noticed the bi and lez women on Matchmaker and Match are mostly inactive, so it means they do not buy memberships. The women that have been active on Matchmaker are the ones answering email initiated by men mostly. It does NOT mean they are members. I put up some fake female profiles and was deluged with email from men, but when I put up fake male profiles using very attractive model photos, the men very seldom got any email. WOMEN TO NOT USUALLY PAY FOR MEMBERSHIPS, just like in real life. Even though most of them are making fairly good money, all the financial burden is shifted over to the male. Career women have a hypocritical double standard. That is why I generally cuss them out and call them the trash that they really are. If you can screw them, then fine, but don't plan on finding any good women on websites like this one. The fact that guys will always hit on them, unlike in real life at times, means that internet women are always cherry picking and never seem to commit because they know another email is just a few minutes away. Single Canadian and American women are among the most absolutely worthless trash on the planet, when they are past 30 years old and still single, unless they are a widow. TREAT INTERNET BITCHES LIKE THE TRASH THAT THEY ARE. Quit paying for memberships, because the whole industry targets gullible loser males that they con into thinking they can match up with some wonderful gal. It doesn't happen often in real life, and even less often on the internet. The real Casanovas aren't wasting time on the internet, and that tells you something.