I agree with Eric. These paysites are a big scam.

I have been a free member of Singlescrowd. I wrote a profile of myself. Since then, gorgeous ladies all over the world have eagerly sent me messages that I can not read unless I pay for full membership.

I can only see the "profiles" of the girls and their message subject line. They are all beautiful girls, with professional photos of them.

These girls are not real. Not one single one. Their profiles have been planted by the site moderators, and their messages are automatic. How do I know?

Because I put it in my profile that anyone who writes to me should put the specific smilie ;-) in the subject line. I have received more than a hundred messages since then, and not a single one has that smilie in the subject. That means that none of the "girls" have ever read my profile... What are the odds of that happening...?

And sometimes they accidentally put the wrong profile on a girl. A Turkish girl (Turkish name, lived in Ankara) liked watching a certain American TV channel and liked to go to Broncos games... Long way from Turkey to Denver...

What a scam, they make me laugh...